The gaps in Honesty...

A new kind of game seemed to have surfaced in the dating scene... or rather the playeur scene...
Maybe it's not new.. maybe it's always been, just that I'm slow to find out....

Pseudo honesty.

Men who come across as completely honest bout their past.
Their flings, their one night stands, their affairs.
N then they tell u.... that they have had enough of all that... n they just want to be true to you....
All to throw u offguard...
To me it's called "The Al3x Game"

"Why me?" the girl might ask at first...

N more sweet talking bleah bleah bleah from the guy...

How can the girl refuse?
After all, the old adage is... everyone is entitled to a past.
The past is the past they say.

I was a victim to all these.
I believed it, fell head first for it...i bled.
N now i learnt from it.

I recently am put in a situation where I had to tell a friend to be wary bout her new boyfriend.
N though i dun know her well, she reminded me of myself, the old me.

And when she assured me that she knows wat she's doing, the guy's completely honest with her bout ongoing relationship etc, it was jus deja vu for me.

Wat i think is this...
You can take the risk of believing him... cos everything is so fresh n new n sweet now.
But when he gets bored... as every guy does.....he might just leave some gaps in his 'honesty' halo.
Gaps that u cannot make sense of or find the plugs to fill them in.

From the book "Why Men Marry Bitches":
"When a man tells you that he left his phone at home, in the car etc for extended periods of time whenever u can't get to him, he's more likely than not to be lying."

To the ex.
I know u lied to me all those times sweetheart.
Pls dun feign innocence n pls dun sms me anymore.