Was reading Von's blog jus....
And was flabbergasted....
An excerpt...
Of a story of a married cheating man she met at Dragonfly (oooh... must I emphasise again how fucking cheesy n tarty n sleazy that place is...)
"AS in his early thirties,average looking,humourous,in F&B industry,sociable and drove a lancer and... status : MARRIED..for a year.
An ideal hubby every woman wanted to grow old with..but it's only a beautiful picture that been drawn..
Every night he will makes sure he reaches home not later then his wife if she happens to be home early.
He will knock off early so to send his to-be-lover home..and went home timely without raising suspicous.
Every night he will pick up his wife if she's happen to work late.
And before he fetch her, he was xxxxing with his lover in nearby hotel.
Everytime he will make sure he won't pick up any calls that might disturb them.
He ensure that no lovers will be entertained as his "wifey hours"
Every night he will ensure that his hp is in silent mode so that his wife won't be disturb by tones.
He ensure no chances was given to his lovers to reach him.
Every Friday he makes sure his wife has some personal time with her friends.
Spending time with his guys,hoping for chances to meet new lovers(baiting).
Every night he will make love to his wife so to keep the romance going.
Ensure there will be some interesting ventures with his wife so to keep his lovers' interests.
Everytime he declares he loves his wife only.
And liking every woman who might interested to sleep with a married man.
Everytime he makes sure he buy his wife the best gifts.
He will never spend money on woman that he slept before.
Everytime he makes his point very clear whenever he feels that some woman might have interest in him.
He grab every chances hoping some woman willing to sleep with the married him=no strings attached.
Everytime he will makes sure his wife had complete trust in him.
Ensure there's no room for suspicious.
Everytime he will make sure his wife was informed for some short coffee sessions with his "brothers"
He saved his lovers' numbers with a man's name and with wife's approval,met his so-called-brothers for a quickie.
Everytime he will make sure both knows where he or her's location.
Ensure he never ever near her presence whenever he with his lover.
I was shocked when i heard his life story..indeed, it took me a while to digest..the curious me,pouring him with questions..
vOn : Don't you feel guilty?
AS : No, why must i feel guilty? It's just physical,nothing emotional.
vOn : So you been doing that since you married?
AS : Ya..since i married..indeed many lovers becomes my buddies! (fxxk buddies assumed)
vOn : Don't you afraid of getting infected with some sex diseases?
AS : safe la, i always have condoms with me.
vOn : Don't you not love your wife?
AS : I love my wife..others are just lust..end of the day,my heart do knows where to belong.
vOn: Don't you afraid she might found out one day?
AS Speak confidently : She will never find out.
vOn : Don't you afraid same thing might happens to you?
AS : This is why i married her..cos she will never be like me!
vOn :Don't you ever thought of stopping such unfaithful behaviour?
AS : It's thrilling..and there's temptation everywhere..how to stop?
......i was speechless..un-beliveable..i don't how to argue or fight back with my reasoning and such, cos there isn't bit of remourseful in him.
How on earth a man can find so many reasons for his wrongdoing and don't feel a tiny shit over it?"
My only reaction... speechless n feeling deep annoyance rising from somewhere inside...
Then why these kinda men get married in the first place????????????
WHY?!?I know that for every bad man out there... there might be a good dependable trustworthy one...
Just might...
Er.. maybe one good man for every 5 bad ones...
THe worst is when the woman tot they found someone trustworthy n dependable... but have the man so much smarter than her..
So wat if he loves her???
He makes love w the wifey every nite... still wan somemore outside!??!
$%#$&&^^*( is the rite reaction von...
This Cbye man should have his dick cut off... ala Bobbitt... >;O
God forbid women with bad experiences like yours truly already have serious trust issues...
the optimist in many of us r still always willing to try n learn to trust n love again...
But to know of such men out there is just.... $%&&*@#* outrageous!!
Sigh. it's easy to say.. but hard to do...
That is to always preserve some of yourself...
Never ever ever trust blindly... 100%...
Keep an eye for warning signs... always trust yr instincts...
Men can't be smarter than women when it comes to the game of cheat...
They will ALWAYS leave little traces of their lies n misdeeds...
This is not a case of "if it's yours it's yours, no need to force things.."
But more like... sometimes... some women do pretend to be ignorant of their other halves' separate lives jus for the sake of the family.. marriage.. etc...
But the question is... why do we wanna let them get away with it!??!?
I swear if I is his wifey n found out... I will cut off his promiscuous greedy pee pee after tying him up n let him bleed dry....
Then I will plead insanity n not go to jail...
Grrrr~
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